Puppy Love

I was in 3rd grade the first time I received a gift.  *George* was in a class a few doors from my own and we shared recess together.  “Rover, Red Rover let __________ come over” we would chant during our break and oh how I liked to be on the same side as *George* because in 3rd grade ‘holding hands’ was a BIG deal.  He was the very first boy to ever give me something…broken antique jewlery as a matter of fact…but that wasn’t the point.  It was a “gift” and it was from HIM and that was all that mattered.  Here I am, a happily married, 30yr old woman who still find the innocence of that gesture so “Sweet.”

So when my daughter came home carrying  2 stuffed animals and grinning from ear to ear I couldn’t help but ask, where’d you get those?  Oh she was so proud when she said “My BOYFRIEND Toby gave them to me” and even though the bear was dirty and had a hole in his leg I simply just smiled at the memories it brought back. 

**Now if I could keep her from repeating my dating streak of ‘bad boys’ I’ll be exstatic!

Adventures in Today

A week ago I read a blog post that OhMommy had written about an ‘adventure’ she had taken her kids on titled “Why Not?”  I felt my own guilt for not being more adventurous because I knew that once upon a time I used to be, but had somehow lost that girl on this journey called motherhood.  I lamented about my woe’s here and to my poor husband who’s only response was “well then do something about it” to which I thought “I guess it really is as simple as that.”

On Saturday morning, I returned from my 5K race bright eyed and ready to tackle the day and provided the following proposition to my children – If they managed to get their rooms clean (as well as the living room and play room they had since turned into a ‘tornado’ room) and I manged to get through the mountain of laundry…We would spend Sunday on an adventure.  A few quizzical looks and questions of “where is this adventure” (an answer I did not have at the time) and a deal was made.  I had no clue where we would go or what we would do, but I was willing to give spontaneous adventures a try at least once.

Sunday Morning arrived and I woke my children up at 6:45 with promises of a day filled with adventure at a State Park. (Not as cool as OhMommy, but ssshh-don’t tell my kids!)  We loaded up the car, threw in a bag of snacks, an ice chest for drinks and with a quick pit stop at the store we were set for a picnic in the park.  Windows down and sunroof up we blasted music till our hearts content as wind flew thru our hair and the sun broke over the tree tops.  A few short hours later we arrived and embarked upon an adventure only our imaginations could take us on as we:

climbed stairs upon stairs to the top of the ancient ceremonial grounds

as we ‘hunted’ the elusive KILLER butterfly

as we crossed the bridge of 100 trolls

as we danced a jig to pay our toll

and searched both UP

and DOWN

realizing in the end that an adventure is best when shared with a friend…

The Battles we Choose…

The old addage…”choose your battles carefully” has been glaring me in the face at every turn this week.  I think as a parent, we probably face more of these days but life is what is and so we choose as we feel we must.

Before

My daughters are both strong willed.  They are stubborn and hard hea

ded.  They are very much my children and I love them for that.  My oldest daughter has been asking for a hair cut for a few weeks (since her daddy told her she needed one) and so I called my hair dresser.  Now I must preface this with the fact that my daughter HATES (with a passion) to brush her hair and I threaten on many occasions to shave her head so she won’t have to but I do not cut it really short.  Shoulder length – yes.  I’ve gone as far as about chin length once but that was a long time ago and ONLY once.

Today however when we walked into the salon and the hairdresser said “So…what are we going to d

o it” I just sat there.  My daughter, my opinionated daughter who knows what she wants chimed in “Cut it short…off my ears short.”  Our hairdresser has been cutting the family’s hair long enough to take one look at me and say “Mom – really?”  I however just took a deep breath and said…”Do whatever she wants.”

In the end – she won this battle and I kept my sanity…and well…I think it’s pretty cute too!

After